You (I mean, we) media guys
I was not there yesterday when Adalius Thomas spoke by conference call to the local writers, so all I can say about it is based on what's been written. And no, this isn't a slap at my columnist colleague, Peter Schmuck; I'm not trying to work some kind of PTI or Siskel and Ebert thing with him. He just happened to be the one who wrote about what sounds like a somewhat contentious session with Thomas.
It's just strange timing for it to happen. For one thing, we have a perception about Sean Taylor's murder (speaking of which, people still have trouble referring to it that way) shaped largely by the fact that Taylor withheld himself from reporters throughout his NFL career. For another, we have a prosecution of Barry Bonds in court and in public that appears largely shaped by the fact that he spent his pro career being impolite with reporters.
We also have a long, long history of positive images about athletes and coaches being shaped by how they interact with us that, at some point, get blown to smithereens by reality. Eugene Robinson, the Falcons player, man of faith and wonderful interview, busted the night before the Super Bowl for soliciting a prostitute, comes to mind. So does Marion Jones, all sweetness and charm, right up until the moment she tearfully confessed to doping up throughout the prime of her track career. And, as I feel compelled to point out as often as possible, Jeff Kent, who was always around to talk to reporters -- and whom reporters admittedly liked because he did talk to them, unlike Bonds -- but who was subsequently revealed to be an enormous liar (the truck-washing/wheelie-popping story to explain his broken wrist) and phony.
Now, Adalius Thomas, being portrayed as being ungrateful for the love showered upon him while he was here, based on his comments about the Ravens in Sports Illustrated earlier this season and his prickly comments yesterday. After the initial Thomas-Ray Lewis exchange, a few reporters made it clear -- sometimes on the record -- that Thomas had "changed'' last year, had gotten full of himself, had blatantly grabbed for media attention as free agency approached, and had stopped talking to the locals in favor of national outlets. Without wanting to discount what they said, I can say I never, ever, saw that from him. I don't remember him ever brushing me off. I don't remember him ever being rude or uncommunicative or unavailable. The opposite; he was great copy all year. But I'm not around the team as much as they are. I was around enough to know that he was a freakishly great player who deserved every accolade, and subsequent dollar, he got, no matter who he spoke to.
The point is this: It's scary sometimes how much power we wield over how these guys are perceived by the world. They need to be more aware of it. Generally, the Ravens players are. You never know exactly when it will come back and haunt you, because there is no doubt that we hold grudges and take out vendettas. I will always believe that had Bonds not been so surly all those years, baseball might still be neck-deep in every steroid known to man, no one would be questioning baseball's records (like the ones Mark McGwire was setting), and there would be no such thing as a Mitchell investigation, a BALCO scandal, or "Game of Shadows."
Or, if Bonds had been given a pass for his testiness the way McGwire was, we'd be in a different place.
Worse, had Sean Taylor been as eager and engaging with the media as, say Curt Schilling -- or, in NFL terms, Chad Johnson or Tony Romo, or at least as neutral as Tom Brady or Donovan McNabb -- we'd be having a completely different conversation about his slaying right now. The fact that Taylor, in doing that, might have been completely full of you-know-what, the consummate phony, wouldn't have mattered. There would not have been that void in knowledge and personal interaction, which so many people filled with the thin, unsupported connection between his past misdeeds and his violent death. It would have been, "How could this have happened? He was such a good guy!''
That whole exchange between Thomas and Lewis earlier this year was one of the highlights of the season. The next chapter is Monday night (unfortunately, they won't face each other). One day, Thomas will spill about it. Inconveniently, that day wasn't yesterday. I won't hold that against him.
I will say this, though. Fifteen minutes of charm from Bill Belichick one afternoon doesn't make him less of a jerk.
