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What daddy's little girls learned from him

My father taught me to stay a kid as long as possible.  While both of my parents made sure to instill a strong work ethic in my brother and me, my dad once helped me ditch school. The day before my 13th Birthday, he pulled me out of class in the middle of the day to get ice cream, go to a park, and just “be a kid one more day” before the horror of being a teenager began.. . . . Being an adult is realizing it’s not all about you. There are bills you need to pay, events you have to attend, and chores you need to complete.  No one cares if you feel like doing these things, you just do them.  . . . Education is key.  No if, ands, or buts.  And no one said it would be easy, so complaining will get you nowhere. . . And perhaps the most important thing I’ve learned from my father: If you’re daddy’s little girl, and you’re away at college, daddy will understand if you rack up a little credit card debt.  But if most of this debt is from Victoria’s Secret, he won’t be so understanding!
Meghan McCormick, Towson

When I started driving, my father took me out to the car, showed me every part, hose, and wire, and told me how everything worked. He showed me how to change a flat tire, how to change my oil, how to replace my spark plugs and windshield wipers, and how to know if my car needed a tune-up . . . My father taught me to drive with a manual transmission, which I still think is the coolest skill in the world.  . . . I consider a manual transmission the best theft deterrent there is, even better than Lojack.
Gynene Sullivan, Baltimore

 

Even back in the "olden days" of the 40's and 50's, I was never told that I couldn't do something because I was a girl. So I've never been afraid to try anything that I wanted to try (and have enjoyed a lot of happiness and success as a result).”<
Aside from that, the five most important things my father taught me are: Life isn't always fair, but it's mostly what you make of it, and is pretty great anyway. Don't waste your time and energy on hate; if you really dislike someone, ignore their existence. Keep your promises. Stick by your principles, but don't be stupidly stubborn; people recognize the difference. Always stand tall, and act like you know what you're doing -- even when you're not so sure you do.
Dayle Dawes, Arnold
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Jan. 8, 2009, marked 30 years for Dan Rodricks' column in The Baltimore Sun. Over three decades, Dan has won numerous regional and several national awards for his reporting and commentary -- in print and on the air. "I've had opportunity to write a column and work in both radio and television, never having to leave my adopted hometown of Baltimore to have those experiences," he says. "I consider myself very fortunate." In addition to writing a twice-weekly column for The Baltimore Sun and his Random Rodricks blog, Dan is currently the host of Midday, on WYPR-FM, National Public Radio in Baltimore. An artful story-teller and social critic, he has observed local, state and national political and cultural trends for three decades, and has a lot to say about almost everything.
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