"Michael" and "Lydia" are going to be on the Midday show today, 1-2 pm, 88.1 WYPR-FM
My column of Easter Sunday -- about the young man I called Michael and the homeless couple he took into his rented rowhouse -- generated a lot of interest among readers, and questions. Tell us more, people said. Give us updates. I asked Michael to think about sending me, by e-mail, progress reports -- how he's getting along with Lydia and Paul, whether they've found a job. Remember now: I didn't use real names in the column because Michael didn't want to be seen as bragging about his generosity and he really didn't want his landlord and new neigbors to know what he's doing. I changed his name, and those of his new house mates.
Today, the first installment in Michael's reports.
April 7, 2008
People have been asking a lot of questions lately. I think its only
fair that I answer those people.
But, first some context: I work at a large financial institution in
downtown Baltimore. Its a stimulating, exciting job and I enjoy
working there. Everyday after work I walk down to the last floor of a nearaby parking
garage. At the bottom of the stairwell I put "street clothes" over my
suit. I have gotten my changing time to under 30 seconds. Then I trek
all the way to one of the blue-light sections of Baltimore, where I
live.
I don't live in that neighborhood by accident. I chose it with
specific intent to bring the homeless to live with me. I had
planned every detail for months prior to moving. I spent the months
before I moved searching for "roommates." I hung out with drug
addicts, alcoholics, convicts, felons, etc. When I was making my plans
and arrangements for bringing them into my house I planned for
everything, except this -- roommates who could actually apply
themselves, seek work, and coexist in a house with me. I didn't plan
for people who have dreams and are willing to work to achieve them.
It's now getting to a point where we are just people living together in
a house. We eat together, play games, talk about life, and strategize
on how to get jobs.
Anyways, more than a month has passed and I can say that I am still
alive, still employed, and still in my parent's good graces. I have
yet to be discovered, so far. (My employer and parents don't know this
is happening)
Things at the house have been surprisingly peaceful. I think we are
all getting very comfortable with each other. However, we have still
not secured steady work.
Lydia passed a drug test and got her old waitressing job back, but she tells me that they over hired and so she has to wait a bit before she can get regular shifts. She has a really
bad toothache, but is working on getting it pulled. Paul is skilled at
home improvements and carpentry. Paul claims that he is going to start
work on a deck for someone who will pay him as well as provide tools.
We'll see if that works out. He also recently got mugged in the
neighborhood. That was a really bad night. His whole days earnings
were taken.
I consider this time period to be search-and-destroy mode. I am
finding that Paul and Lydia have walls blocking them from physically
and mentally achieving what they want. I am focused on identifying the
walls one by one. Once I can see them, then I can break them. We have
broken several walls so far, but we still have a ways to go.
Basically, I know I can't do this alone, so I'm trying to reach out
to anyone who wants to help.
I checked out a group called National Student Partnerships. They read
Dan's article and were really excited when I came to visit them. They
really want to help us out. So now it's just a matter of getting Paul
and Lydia to the meeting. They both seemed interested and willing to
go. That will probably happen next week.
Also, I met a guy who does construction work for a living; he works on
the Virginia shore. I invited myself down for a few days to see what
he does and better understand the construction world. That
understanding will help me get Paul a job. I spent this weekend at
a different construction site in Maryland. Paul doesn't have a
GED so it makes calling in for a job a bit difficult. I think the
answer lies in actually getting into the "construction" network and
then using connections to find him work.
There are so many challenges to finding work, so many obstacles to
overcome. But the way I see it, we only have one option: victory.
I am often told, "You should start a charity." My response: no thanks,
we have plenty of charities, soup kitchens, and shelters. They are all
doing necessay and good work. I am not starting a charity. I am not
criticizing the city or the system. I am not raising awareness about
the homeless cause. I am not an "example." I am simply living in my
house with some homeless people, who have become housemates, who have become
friends.
I am also asked, "Is it safe?" My response: No, it's not safe at
all, but it is good. And I think good gets better, much better.