Televangelist admits affair, alleges extortion attempt
Associated Press religion writer Rachel Zoll reports:
A prominent televangelist appeared before a worldwide television audience Tuesday to admit that he had an affair with a woman years ago — and to allege that three people had tried to extort millions of dollars from him to stay quiet about his infidelity.
The Rev. Marcus Lamb, who created DayStar Television Network with his wife Joni, said he and his wife had healed their marriage and had hoped to keep his adultery private, but went public because they would not pay extortionists. The three people demanded $7.5 million, he said.
"They're trying to take our pain and turn it to their gain," said Lamb, during a one-hour live broadcast with his wife by his side and supporters surrounding him. "We're not going to take God's money to keep from being humiliated."
A spokesman for the Lambs, Larry Ross, said they went to authorities with their allegations, but he said he could not discuss specifics for fear of interfering with any investigation. He said the extortion attempt was made within the past few weeks.
DayStar, based in Dallas, airs some of the highest-profile evangelists in the world, including Joel Osteen, T.D. Jakes, Benny Hinn, Kenneth Copeland, Creflo Dollar and Joyce Meyers.
The network says it operates more than 70 stations in major U.S. television markets and also broadcasts to more than 200 countries.
Joni Lamb described her husband's affair as "an emotional relationship" with a woman that became "an improper relationship." When she learned of his infidelity several years ago, she was devastated and prayed to the Holy Spirit, who told her, "He's worth fighting for."
She confronted her husband and the two decided to undergo Christian counseling with Fred and Anna Kendall of the Life Languages Institute, which specializes in training communicators.
Marcus Lamb said he took responsibility for the affair by confessing what he had done to his wife's parents and asking some members of the DayStar ministry to help hold him accountable for his promise to stay faithful.
"I said, `Honey, I'll do whatever it takes to heal the hurt and right the wrong," Marcus Lamb said.
Fred Kendall appeared on the broadcast along with his wife and said he advised the Lambs to stay quiet about their marital problems because he feared they would not overcome their troubles if they had to do so in public.
The Lambs' supporters on the broadcast repeatedly described the affair and the extortion plot as an attempt by the devil to discredit the evangelist couple and their ministry. DayStar is rooted in Pentecostalism, the Christian tradition known for its spirit-filled worship, and its belief in modern-day miracles and everyday battles with evil influences.
"I think this was a direct attack from the devil," Fred Kendall said, although Lamb responded that only he is to blame for his wrongdoing.
Lamb said he had contacted his denomination, the Church of God in Cleveland, Tenn., and about 30 other Christian leaders with the news ahead of the broadcast. He also directly addressed viewers, asking for their prayers.
"To our beloved partners and friends," he said, "we're not here to excuse sin, but we are here to celebrate the goodness and the grace of God. He has helped Joni and me."






Comments
Ok guys he that is without sin let him cast the first stone.Its not for me to judge. You have asked God for foriveness so to me the case is closed I hope all feel the same God bless you both. dorothy.
Posted by: dorothy | November 30, 2010 7:25 PM
7.5 million dollars on the line would do it--sure--confess, rather than be robbed--lust for lust or lust for money, the teletubbies for Jesus, simply lust. They can always blame the devil for their capitulation to temptation and as for damnation-- they can be born again and again, purified and sanctified, ready for the second coming and never be damned. This man's a con artist. The devil had taken a personal interest in discrediting this fool? Ah, the Pentecostals, they need a leaker within their duplicitous morass of belief in every day miracles and confrontations with evil--"Wickid Leaks" we could call the story of their Christian lives, juicy tit-bits of Pentecostal sins, enjoyed when the lord isn't looking--if the lives of the ministers and priests of the Christian flock are samples from which to judge, the mythical lord of the skies, seems to have sent his competitor the devil to take dominion of this earth for good. When the extortionists have left and the next temptress comes calling with a calling card from the devil, Lamb will be ready for the slaughter and Joni will be still be praying to the holy ghost.
R Anon
Posted by: Anonymous | November 30, 2010 11:56 PM
The cynic in me suggests that Ms Lamb's voices told her that Mr Lamb's earning power was "worth fighting for." His decision not to go public with the affair ensured that the cash flow would not be cut off. Had he confessed his transgression (and attendant hypocrisy) at the time, he might have had to get a real job to support his family.
Posted by: BankStreet | December 1, 2010 7:26 AM
Paul says in the scriptures to stay single if we can so we can better serve God. I cant help but think however that Catholic priests would be better off if they were allowed to marry. This man of course has the support of God, but he also has the support of a loving wife. I wish priests had the same, along with the ability to raise children. The church needs more change than just in the acceptance of condoms for those who are promiscuous. If a priest wants to stay single, he should not be encouraged to marry, but he should have the freedom to do so. Thanks.
Posted by: Clay | December 1, 2010 9:49 AM
Why are you concerned about the marital status of Catholic priests in this thread Clay?
This thread is about a Bible-believing fundamentalist adulterer Clay.
Posted by: Dana | December 1, 2010 12:13 PM
Clay I have to agree with Dana this thread is about Bible-believing fundamentalist adulterer so why bring up the issue of priest's marrying?
Posted by: Anonymous | December 1, 2010 12:46 PM
The only real surprise here is the small amount of money. A mere 7.5 million? The extortionists (if they exist) were not even in the ballpark. My basic calculations have the worth of this TV network as over a million a week in pretty much free and clear cash flow, just to the founders, not counting production fees, commissions and sales to the viewers. My family is an old church family, with small-church pastors going back to 1600. These abusers of the Christian faith from the TV world make more in a month than several of my ancestors together made in a lifetime. And they love to keep it and show it off as they live a very good life here on this earth. The love of money is so evident here that corruption should be the mere starting point for some vigorous examination of what the TV evangelist world really stands for. One final shot in this case: The Texas big guy, all heart and so repentant that he was, wanted to do whatever it took to clean up his mess ....well, did he sell all and give to the poor? We know the answer. So how, then, does his denomination calculate how many people have been forever scarred and driven away by this very troubled man and other TV evangelists with their endless scandals and grotesque materialism?
Posted by: John Xavier | December 1, 2010 3:49 PM
Clay can be a bit monomaniacal in his comments. I'm sorta surprised he didn't manage to bring in homosexuality on this one.
Of course, now that I have, I'm sure he's on his way.
Posted by: BankStreet | December 1, 2010 4:19 PM
The thread is about a fundamentalist former adulterer. He has the type of support from his wife that can only help anyone who heads a church. Thanks.
Posted by: Clay | December 1, 2010 4:29 PM
I heard about this on Wednesday night on the Rachel Maddow Show on MSNBC. I was not the least surprised. Here's a guy who has profited greatly on the gullibility of religious believers, but still couldn't keep his "junk" in his trousers. Oh, and this channel carries the Creflo Dollar show? Uh-oh...that makes it suspicious even if you don't take the preacher's love-life into account.
Posted by: Laurence Glavin | December 2, 2010 2:43 PM
Clay,
I'm curious. Would you be so forgiving of this "former adulterer," if he had EXACTLY the same story (tearful -- I'm assuming tears on the part of Mr Lamb, maybe I remember Jim Bakker too well -- acknowledgment of error, extortion claim, loyal spouse...) if he were NOT a fundamentalist preacher? Let's say he was a non-believing used-car salesman ... or politician? Does a man have to be a fundamentalist in order for you to accept his confession of error and resolve to abandon sin? Is confession worthless outside a Christian context?
Posted by: BankStreet | December 3, 2010 9:33 AM
It's also interesting that the "Christian counselors" consulted by the Lambs work for an organization that "specializes in training communicators." Was this marital counseling or spin control?
Posted by: BankStreet | December 3, 2010 10:00 AM
Yes I could forgive him but it is more important for him to ask God for forgiveness. TV evangelists obviously dont always set the best examples as preachers.
Posted by: Clay | December 3, 2010 6:58 PM
I guess you've answered my question, Clay, albeit in your usual oblique way. You would forgive him, even though you knew he was a non-believer and had not "asked God for forgiveness." His relationship (or non-relationship) with your god would be irrelevant to your own personal forgiveness of him. Right?
Posted by: BankStreet | December 3, 2010 9:18 PM
Absolutely. The bible says we are to forgive others. It doesnt say they have to be Christians.
Posted by: Clay | December 4, 2010 1:17 PM
Well guys open your Bible and read about David. He not only had an affair but he had a man killed. Yet when it ended up David is a man after God's own heart! Noone will be perfect or tempted until they have wings on their back!
Posted by: Jackie Manes | December 4, 2010 5:23 PM
They both are so strong to cope with this problem! Of course everything would be OK with God’s help! Forgiveness is very important, if wife can forgive him it definitely says that God forgave him too! That’s great example of what true love, understanding, forgiveness and belief are! God bless them!
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