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July 20, 2010

Lawyers: School district settles with lesbian teen

The Mississippi school district that canceled a high school prom rather than allow a senior to bring her girlfriend has reached a settlement with the student, her attorneys said Tuesday.

The Itawamba County School District has agreed to pay 18-year-old Constance McMillen $35,000 plus attorneys fees, according to the American Civil Liberties Union. The district also agreed to implement a policy banning discrimination or harassment on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity – the first such policy in Mississippi – according to the ACLU.

"I'm so glad this is all over,” McMillen, a student at Itawamba Agricultural High School in in Jackson, Miss., said in a statement distributed by the ACLU. “I won't ever get my prom back, but it's worth it if it changes things at my school.”

According to the ACLU, McMillen suffered such harassment at IAHS that she transferred to another school to complete her senior year. The ACLU has accused district officials of staging a sham prom for McMillen while classmates attended a separate event elsewhere.

Posted by Matthew Hay Brown at 1:46 PM | | Comments (6)
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The money is largely symbolic. She can pay her lawyers and maybe buy a car and a new tux. The important issue is that she made a positive change in the lives of LGBT youth in her community. She has shown the truth in the words of Margaret Mead when she said, “A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has.”

Constance is an example for all of us to stand up for our convictions.

If I were a religious man, I'd see this as evidence of a divine revelation visited upon the school board.

My faith in humanity allows me to hope that it reflects a genuine change of heart and an understanding of both the folly and cruelty of their previous approach to something that posed no real threat to anyone.

In the cold light of day/reason, I suspect it has more to do with lawyers and money than anything else.

However one reads it, it is a step in the right direction. Let's pay attention, though, to see that the stated resolution is sustained. Takes more than a "settlement" to change hearts and minds.

Money never lessens the pain. Why should our young people have to feel the weight of old style prejudice
. Let us move on to the 21st century and not worry about what a persons orientation is or who they choose to love.

God is THE REASON America became so great. God never intended man be with man or woman with woman. This is a moral issue and we do NOT condone it. Quit trying to make this a civil right because it's NOT. Our founding fathers would be so very ashamed of America today! They NEVER intended it to be this way. Forgive them, for they know not what they do.

Who the heck are you, Kay, to speak for the national "we" in saying "we" don't condone whatever "it" is?

Constance wanted to wear a tux to the prom. Is that all your panties are twisted over? Get over it. The only difference between a man's shirt and a woman's blouse is the side the buttons are on. Today I wore a woman's pin stripe suit from Macy's and the only discernible difference between it and a man's is the zipper up the side instead of the front on the slacks.

Maybe you fancy yourself a better role model than Joan of Arc but she managed to save a nation and stand before God while crossdressed. She didn't blabber about “the reason” her country was great, but rather stood behind its greatness and stood for her king and her Savior. What sacrifice other than lip service do you have to offer?

Excuse me girlie, but if you're going to do the “Forgive them, for they know not what they do,” playing Jesus thing maybe you should put on some trousers. Oh. My mistake. Jesus didn't wear trousers, did He???

Kay,

Homosexuality is (and always has been) a very natural part of humanity. Your religious scruples cannot change that fact. The fact that you don't "condone" it is irrelevant and somewhat ludicrous. You might as well not "condone" blue eyes or left-handedness.

Our founders, bound as they were by eighteenth-century mores, would not have thought to codify equal right for homosexual people, just as they did not think to codify equal rights for women and for Black and native-American people. But they did create a Constitution that implicitly grants those rights (Sometimes it took Amendments to rectify the founders' oversights.) and they explicitly prevented your religious scruples from undermining those rights. I have no real problem with your being uncomfortable with homosexuality. Your inability to fathom the reality of innate same-sex attraction is much more your own problem (although I suspect it causes problems for people you know and love). The Constitution does not provide for your comfort. Indeed, accommodating the civil rights of others may necessitate some discomfort.

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About Matthew Hay Brown
Matthew Hay Brown writes and blogs about faith and values in public and private life for The Baltimore Sun. A former Washington correspondent for the newspaper, he has long written about the intersection of religion and politics. He has reported from Africa, Asia, Europe, Latin America and the Middle East, traveling most recently to Syria and Jordan to write about the Iraqi refugee crisis.
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