Suicide of Rutgers student who was bullied
The suicide of a Rutgers student whose sexual encounter was live-streamed onto the internet should make every parent and teacher think deeply about what we teach our children about social media, but even more importantly, about what we say about living your life each day in a way that does not hurt others.
As parents, perhaps we should stop taking for granted that our children know how to be kind to their peers. Maybe we need to have more pointed conversations around the dinner table. Maybe we need to say each morning when our children walk out the door:"Be kind to others." instead of "Work hard." or "Have a nice day."
U.S. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan issued a statement today about bullying which is worth reading. It provides a reminder to parents, teachers and students, particularly those who hear derogatory statements about gays and do nothing.
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Comments
You couldn't have said it better. These children have been groomed for a great education and clearly neglected in the area of basic humanity. On no level is it ok to even think of invading someone's privacy this way. Sexual orientation may have made these two criminals feel justified, however, it is of no importance. Something is wrong with the core of any person thinking it is ok to invade the privacy of others this way. Take note on what is really important parents. Education is only one facet of life. Kindness and respect of others should NEVER be neglected.
Posted by: dawn moreno | October 1, 2010 10:53 PM
This transcends the term 'bully' which to me has a grade/high school connotation. This act was a form of assassination. It's long overdue to bring a sense of morality and civility back to classrooms, lunchrooms and playgrounds. Apparently not much is being taught at home, so American education needs to shoulder up another burden.
Posted by: ruth | October 2, 2010 9:33 AM
Here's what bothers me about the way this is being reported: The lead should read, "X and Y did this..." Their families and the communities that failed to make them understand how to treat others need to read be exposed to this reminder at every possible turn.
Posted by: Eve | October 4, 2010 12:02 PM