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Girl's false accusations have readers fuming

I've heard this morning from several readers about articles I wrote last week regarding the 11-year-old girl at Perry Hall Middle School who falsely accused a construction worker of sexually assaulting her in the school's restroom.

Most of the emailers expressed anger that a man's reputation was nearly ruined and his livelihood could've been jeopardized by the girl's false assertions, such as this one from a reader in Irvine, Calif. ...

"I think that rape is a serious and terrible crime, and that clearly it does go on. However, it is also clear that unsubstantiated allegations of rape or violence happen very frequently and that these false allegations also victimize innocent people and destroy lives. We need society to move toward a model in which people cannot get away with either of these things."

But the most compelling one (at least by my estimation) is one that comes from a vendor representative who says she has spent many years coordinating efforts between her company and local school systems. In her email, she wrote that she often suggested that school systems issue IDs to contract workers. She wrote, in part:

"There are many people on a school campus. Those that belong, who are employed by the school system, have IDs. Volunteers now go through more of a process and most also have IDs. But those that are contracted by the school system, and actually need to conduct a serious amount of work, for the greatest good, are subject to understandable protocol, numerous questions from a multitude of staff, who are just trying to do their job in protecting children.

"I would get stopped repeatedly, questioning why I was on campus. While making deliveries for children in which I needed to dolly in numerous loads, employees would actually shut the door in attempt to protect the school without any way to indicate I was coming back with more items for their children. I finally made my own sign to post on the propped door indicating its purpose. But I didn't get upset, as I, too, have children and respect everyone's dedication to protect them.

"I have always thought that since everyone is on the same team, and protecting children is of the utmost importance, subjecting vendor personnel to fingerprinting is understandable. These employees should receive a photo ID from the school system indicating they are approved to conduct work on campus. It turns a stranger into a comrade at a glance. And allows everyone to achieve their individual successes to complete the puzzle of best support for everyone's children in academic acceleration."

Here's part of my reply to the angry emailers:

In the end, as I have shared with another reader who called me today, it's unfair to assume the school system and legal authorities aren't taking the girl's false allegations seriously. As I reported, the school system is prohibited from discussing with us what, if any, consequences the girl may face (such as suspension or expulsion). And the state's attorney's office made it clear, as we reported, that they felt confident the girl's family was best suited to handle this situation.

One of the questions I asked of all the parents to whom I spoke was whether they worried that these false allegations would cause them to initially doubt other reports of similar accusations, should this ever happen again. Most of them said it was unfortunate, that one who lies can create this layer of doubt for all others. Again, they came back to the point that it would be better to take this as an opportunity to tighten those controls at the school site to avoid being in this position again.

Gina

To read more of the emails and the rest of my reply, click on the link below ...

From Dallas, Texas ...

"Rather than an apology to the construction worker, all involved believe it's a wake-up call concerning the 'possibility' of an attack. ... Where is the outrage at a false allegation and concern for the real victim --- an innocent construction worker?"

From "Disgusted at the times," came this ...

"It amazes me that this story can turn into the subject of what if this young girl had been molested, when it should actually be about how easy she lied. Let's look at the fact of it. If this lie hadn't been brought to light, this construction worker AND HIS FAMILY would have been the subject of not only prosecution, but persecution."

From a reader in New York ...

"I wonder why you, in your journalistic integrity, aren't calling for workers at the school to be better protected from false accusations from obviously troubled children. What would've happened to this man had they not had video surveillance? His world would've been ripped apart and he would've had a hard time proving himself innocent."

This one comes from a reader in Pittsburgh ...

"The implications of this lie were potentially devastating because if the lie had its intended effect, an innocent man would have been sent away to prison for decades. Apparently no one with whom you spoke was concerned about the fact that a man, and his loved ones, might have had their lives destroyed over this lie."

 

The full text of my reply ... 

Thank you for your note. I'm hoping my reply will give you some insight into our reporting of the story, and our efforts to accurately do so.

First, I'll say that I am aware of the damage that false accusations can do to anyone --- men and women, alike. After all, I work for a newspaper and am an avid news reader.

As for the situation at Perry Hall Middle School, from the very first day, it was clear to me (from my interviews with police and school officials) that video surveillance tapes were providing ample information to prompt further scrutiny of the girl's story. The existence of those tapes was reported in my stories. From my additional conversations with the principal, it was also apparent that the tapes were providing significant information for investigators.

Even school officials, from the outset, acknowledged that they work to ensure as much distance as possible between construction workers (or contract workers, in general) and students/teachers/staff. So, it doesn't strike me as unreasonable that parents would subsequently see this situation as an opportunity to further tighten those controls.

The executive director for the National Safe Schools Coalition told me that he generally advises schools to develop contracts with contractors that call for separate entrances to work areas, etc., as precautionary measures. He says most contractors are likewise interested in alleviating any gray areas.

In the end, as I have shared with another reader who called me today, it's unfair to assume the school system and legal authorities aren't taken the girl's false allegations seriously. As I reported, the school system is prohibited from discussing with us what, if any, consequences the girl may face (such as suspension or expulsion). And the state's attorney's office made it clear, as we reported, that they felt confident the girl's family was best suited to handle this situation.

One of the questions I asked of all the parents to whom I spoke was whether they worried that these false allegations would cause them to initially doubt other reports of similar accusations, should this ever happen again. Most of them said it was unfortunate, that one who lies can create this layer of doubt for all others. Again, they came back to the point that it would be better to take this as an opportunity to tighten those controls at the school site to avoid being in this position again.

Gina

Comments

We know of a situation where the grandfather is falsely accused by the mother of his little granddaughter who is 3 years old of sexual abuse; the mother has a very sick mind and needs help since she has, and still is, a cocaine and crack cocaine user (needed plastic surgery for a new nose) and, apparently things have been happening at her house where our grandchild is residing with her mother and her little 1 year old half sister. Mother comes from a family that have been and some of them are still using drugs, alcohol, and she herself, was introduced to drugs by her own mother when she was 6 years old and was raised by an older sister. Anyway, to make a long story short what can be done since the mother keeps on insisting that the grandfather (who is no pervert or sicko and loves his grandchildren very much) committed that act with his grandchild. The child was taken to her doctor, child was checked and nothing was found that was done sexually to the child. Than the mother decided to take her to a doctor the child has never seen before and the report was also negative but what the mother told the doctor to write in the report was hideous but the child was perfectly fine, no sexual abuse was found but yet, and I think it was the mother's idea, it said on the report to report the case to CPS (Child Protective Services). CPS is involved right now since the family of the child has called in reports and complaints to CPS and at first CPS did not do much about it until the father and grandmother of the child continued going back to CPS and insisted on having the child's house where she is residing checked out since drug paraphenelia is constantly found everywhere. Mother was shocked went CPS paid her a visit and she had to go for a drug test. Anyway, what can we or should we do, anything at all, or give the mother enough rope "to hang herself?"

Please respond, thank you!

the system is broken. simply an accusation can ruin a life w/ no remedy. not even an acquittal can repair damaged reputations. Prosecutors and judges should have good solid evidene prior to "CHARGING" a sexual crime.

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