The killing of a child
Many readers responded to Ryan Jones' memorial letter about his slain student, Jason Mattison Jr., and it was that letter that prompted colleague Brent Jones and I to do more with this case and write a fuller profile. Jason was found dead in a closet of his aunt's house and police charged a family friend, who had just gotten out of prison for murder, with his death.
A big unanswered question, even after two days of reporting, remains: where did Jason actually live and how did he come to be with his aunt and the suspect, Dante Parrish? His paternal grandmother suggests he somehow left his mother's (we can only speculate it had something to do with Jason being gay, which his family was struggling to accept).
The family in the Llewellyn Avenue house insisted Jason was just visiting when he was killed; police will only say he was "staying" there. But the cops also say that he had "forced sexual relationship" with the suspect; both statements suggest Jason was in the Llewellyn Avenue house as more than a part-time visitor. It was in that house he met up with Dante, and his grandmother questions how they could have allowed a man with a violent criminal past be so cose to a young boy (pics of police taking Dante Parrish to Central Booking).
Police declined to be more specific about Jason's living situation; too bad, because that could clear up a lot and answer some questions, not just for us but for the family, which seems at odds about how Jason was treated.
Everyone at his school told me Jason talked nonstop, but not about how he lived. Was he in that Llewellyn Avenue house for months (Parrish was released in January) and in constant fear all this time? And if so, with so many friends at school, why didn't he say anything. His grandmother told Brent that Jason "didn't keep any secrets from me."
It appears he kept his biggest secret until his death.
His funeral is today at Unity United Methodist Church on Edmondson Avenue.
Categories: Breaking news, East Baltimore




Comments
Peter: I have read on other media outlets that a cousin living in that home reported to media that she heard Jason screaming and knew that Dante had been calling for him so she went to her mother about what she heard...have you heard anything about this? If this is true, it would seem that the family somehow knew what was happening and possibly could have prevented it?? I am a little confused and wonder how accurate that statement was and if true why I have heard less than nothing about it...she detailed that she heard screaming that did not get lower but just ceased....but no one went to the room where the screaming came from? You knew he was in there and screaming and you just...did nothing? I am trying hard to understand and my heart is heavy with grief for a young man it seems that his family failed...if you have any information about this "screaming" please let us know how it may figure into the story...
Posted by: Kiy | November 18, 2009 9:32 AM
Thanks for the note. We haven't been able to confirm that account and the people inside the home where Jason was killed are not that inclined to talk about it. I spent a good deal of time at the house this week but they wouldn't let me inside nor would they talk much. I don't know where that account came from. There are many unanswered questions, not the least of them why Jason was in that house to begin with.
Posted by: Peter Hermann | November 18, 2009 10:33 AM
This is so said, I to believe that his family failed him. I also feel that there is alot of information that the family is holding out on. WHY? We are ssuppose to protect and love our kids yet we see thingss like this happen on a daily bases. My prayers go out to the family. As for the grandmother keep asking questions someone is gonna slip up.
Posted by: Anonymous | November 18, 2009 3:55 PM
The death of a child is ALWAYS filled with questions. My only question is How could family, friends or acquaintances allow that CHILD to deal with the seduction techniques from a grown man. I saw the television accounts from the family and they said that Dante consistently stated what he wanted to do to this child sexually. The family said that he was being stalked but he "could handle it." I child needs guidance, protection and direction. A child cannot handle adult issues and adult deviance. Old school values and Old school men would have handled that much differently.
Posted by: Sad State of Mind | November 19, 2009 10:07 AM
Please tell me that it doesn't really matter whether or not the boy lived in the house or not. He was brutally murdered by a very savage individual. Who, might I add probably would have committed this crime be it any place. The fact that there is so much to say regarding his living arrangements after the fact seem pointless. Where was all that concern about where he was living before his death? Also, why did he not have a permanent home? Was it his lifestyle that seems to keep rearing it's head? I just believe with the state of the world today with families and their financial woes, drug addiction, absent parents, gang affiliations, etc., there is enough for a child to worry about. He/She should at least be able to be themselves around their family, all of their family. Let his memory be that of the good in his short life, I'm sure he would appreciate it.
Posted by: kjohn | November 19, 2009 5:35 PM
Knowing the family, i call them the (house that Jack built) or the house of ill repult. almost half the family is jay, so why is it a problem if one more is. he still should have been loved and looked out for if not harder due to his age. all those that should have had his best intrest in mind needs to be looked at. i personally blame quite a few!!!
Posted by: Anonymous | November 20, 2009 7:01 AM
Okay!
Enough people know about Jason's DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY!!! The mother should be arrested for letting her child live from pillow to post and not caring about his welfare. The DRUGED OUT AND DRUNK SKUNKS in that house full of trash should be locked up for being so intoxicated that they could not have looked out for any of these childrens well beings. The place should be shut down. It is no way the so called grown people should get away with this. What next another kid killed in that HELL HOLE?
Posted by: Anonymous | November 22, 2009 9:57 AM
Sorry to see that he did not have a family that loved him unconditionally. If his mother loved him liike that he may still be alive. He would have probably came to her when problems first came about because he would have known that he had a friend as well as a mother. I am speaking from experience I am a mother of a gay son and I love him no matter what.He comes to me about everything. I would rather he come to me then a stranger and have to end up like Jason did.His mother is to blame she should have loved him no matter what. I know she is not perfect.
Posted by: Stacy | November 23, 2009 3:05 PM