Gardening from the couch: Gardening for a Lifetime
Sydney Eddison has written the book no gardener wants to read, but every gardener should: "Gardening for a Lifetime: How to Garden Wiser as You Grow Older."
A gardener for 40 years in Connecticut, the author suffered the loss of her husband and her own declining health. These factors forced Eddison to re-evaluate her life as a gardener and make some painful, and practical, changes.
She writes in this book about the decisions and adaptations she has made, and her prose is illustrated with the delicate pen and ink illustrations of Kimberly Day Proctor.
The answer to gardening older? Sometimes it is as simple as hiring someone for a few hours each week. Other times it is as tough as downsizing your garden.
The jacket calls this book "gentle, personable and practical." It certainly is.











Comments
Aren't we all striving for low-maintenance gardening, as much as possible? I refuse to plant anything that requires fussing over.
I try to do my weeding after the rain has soaked the ground. This is just good common sense, it seems to me.
Posted by: Dahlink | May 30, 2010 7:48 AM
Sounds like a book I should be reading - my wrists are ageing several times faster than the rest of me.
Posted by: Lazy Gardens | May 30, 2010 9:08 AM
My husband and I have been dealing with the limitations of age in our gardens already, although we are only in our 50s. We are moving towards low maintenance plants and reducing the area that needs mowing. I would love to read "Gardening For A Lifetime" for more ways to make gardening easier.
Posted by: Melody Lee | May 30, 2010 9:32 AM
The book is filled with insights for people of all ages who, with physical or time restraints (everyone is so busy these days) can't garden as much as they'd like to. She has downsized her garden, but most of us didn't start with such an extensive landscape. And as for her "declining health," she's going to be around for a good long time!
Posted by: Kari Lønning | May 30, 2010 1:33 PM
My grandmother worked in her garden in baltimore city until the day she died. My mother has recently taken over the property and i think this book might be pretty helpful for her.
hopefully she won't ask me for the book on tape version
Posted by: Shawn | May 30, 2010 4:10 PM
I really need to read this book. I'm a perennial gardener and as I age I feel the gardens getting harder and harder to maintain. Every year I dig up and give away, but find it too easy to keep transplanting and let it grow.
Posted by: Susan | May 30, 2010 6:51 PM
You know, I think there's a lot to gardening that improves the way we live. There's something about growing a living organism and nurturing it's growth. Particularly special is having a garden for sustenance. Herb gardens, vegetable gardens, and fruit gardens have a way of keeping us healthy not only physically but mentally as well. Gardening is one of those activities that keeps us young!
Posted by: Jimmy Wingett | May 30, 2010 11:40 PM
Dear Susan,
I married into a family of lifetime gardeners which includes 5 siblings and their parents whom are both graduates of the Cornell Master Gardening program.
During a recent family gathering the "Collective" discussed the merits of "Digging" to relieve the stresses of their respective 9-5 schedules. The youngest of the 5 recently crossed the 50 year milestone. This steered the discussion to their respective milestones, how it was affecting their ability to spend the time they felt they deserved in their gardens and even broached the topic of garden reduction.
What I found most interesting is this entire conversation took place as the seven of them toured their mothers gardens, deadheading flowers, identifing who aquired which species first, which plant was a "sibling" of someone elses, ect.
I have tried gardening many times in the past but have never taken to the soil as this group has.
I came across an interview and review of Mrs. Eddison's book in the Hartford Courant this month and thought maybe if I were to read and digest the writings of Mrs. Eddison, I might better understand the thoughts and motivations of this band of happy gardeners.
Sincerely
Bill
Posted by: William Follett | May 31, 2010 2:40 AM
This book may have come along at just the right time for me. I have developed arthritis in my hands along with other aliments and was facing this decision. What to do about my many gardens. Do I down size? Do I hire help? The thought of never gardening again causes me such sadness. My mother gardened into her late 80s. I hope I can do the same.
Posted by: 56 year old gardener | June 1, 2010 7:08 AM
As my husband and I grow older. we know that we will have to make some changes. We so love our garden, and have spent many hours over the years developing it, but we know that it is heavy maintenance and sometimes well beyond our physical capabilities. I am so happy that someone has addressed this issue and would love to read her suggestions.
Posted by: Deborah Butcher | June 1, 2010 7:27 AM
For the past few years, the knees have been displeased by the kneeling involved in gardening. This year, they are especially cranky about it and refuse to be usuaged by sitting instead.
Posted by: Eve | June 1, 2010 1:48 PM
I love gardens, but I am not much of a gardener, though I grow a few plants and trees in the plot of land surrounding my house, tend to them a little but not beyond watering when needed, I appreciate and feel proud when they sprout or blossom or bear fruit. As one gets on years, the stiffening of your wrists, ankles and knees naturally affects your ability to pursue your interests, especially like gardening, which requires the use of these joints. Glad someone thought of writing a book on the subject. Thanks for covering it in your post.
Posted by: versakay | April 10, 2011 7:39 AM