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Better safe than sorry

Even though I've strayed from this week's topic of finding a date in Baltimore (I don't know how Maryann does it!) here is something you that could be helpful when you're dating someone new:

In Maryland, you can check court records online:

http://casesearch.courts.state.md.us/inquiry/

You know you cyber stalk your dates anyway, so why not look up something that might be useful? And, I can say from personal experience, that people who are seemingly nice and normal can be pretty bad people. (Or at least guilty of yucky crimes.)

Even though I did once meet a woman (a public defender) at a party who told me that a person's past criminal background wouldn't deter her from dating someone,  I think most people would at least want to know if their new S.O. spent time in the pokey, or pleaded guilty to a felony or a really gross misdemeanor.

Not the kind of thing people usually tell you on a first date ...

Comments

Indeed. And here's a good story that's right on point:

http://www.recordnet.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20070610/A_NEWS/706100328

My mom is getting sued for something

It's funny how much information you can get for free when so many people don't know it's available. lol thanks for the website.

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Maryann James, an (often) single twenty-something and Baltimore Sun copy editor, is on the prowl for the best stories from Baltimore's dating scene.
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