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January 21, 2010

John Edwards and his new daughter

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At nearly 2 years old, Frances Quinn Hunter isn't "new," of course. But for the first time, former presidential candidate John Edwards has admitted he fathered the child during an affair with videographer Rielle Hunter.

According to the Associated Press story, it appears that Frances -- known as "Quinn" -- was conceived "during the middle of 2007." That would be close to July 2007, when Edwards and his wife, Elizabeth, renewed their wedding vows in honor of their 30th anniversary.

But the most interesting thing about today's story, to me at least, was this quote from Elizabeth Edwards, who reportedly urged her husband to acknowledge his paternity of the child. She has said that whether or not he fathered the child didn't matter to her..."that would be a part of John's life, but not a part of mine."

Wow. Would you see it that way?

(Associated Press photo)

Posted by Kate Shatzkin at 9:50 AM | | Comments (8)
Categories: Parenting in general
        

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Yes, I would see it that way, too, but I would say that neither Quinn nor John are part of my life.

Hmmm no surprise here...Quinn can only hope the loser gene from both of her parents do not get passed on to her. Elizabeth can say whatever she wants...her shoes are heavy and I can only imagine how hard they are to walk in...bless her.

I live in NC, and it's been "leaked" here that the Edwardses have separated. My heart goes out to her. Egocentric and narcissistic doesn't begin to describe her husband.

I voted for him and Kerry, and I feel stupid!

bless you,elizabeth.the only one this man has continued to fool is himself.our hearts go out to you and your children.

I think (hope) that Elizabeth would not feel that way if she could plan on having the time to deal with her anger and hurt in a more healthy way. But given her prognosis, I can't say that I blame her for not wanting to spend any of her precious remaining time making things easier for John. I mean, Quinn herself will almost certainly not remember Elizabeth or have any sense of the effort she did or did not make to acknowledge her, so any conciliatory effort at this point would only serve to make John and Rielle feel better. Blech. (I do hope that Elizabeth is not discouraging her own children from welcoming Quinn as a member of the family, though.)

Sad, painful story every way you look at it... My heart goes out to everyone involved -- especially Elizabeth whom I cannot even imagine the rage, pain, hurt, etc.... She should join a support group and move to a quiet beautiful cabin by a lake. John should have simply left when the marriage ended. (Message to "clueless" the marriage is over when you are sleeping with a well known cheap opportunist.) At least there would have been more dignity in the truth. Must have been hard for John to give up his power... And, if it is true that Elizabeth knew about the affair prior to finding out about her second bout of cancer, she should have insisted that John drop out of the presidential race. Why do people see themselves as "American Saviors" instead of just being honest about who they are?

What a terrible betrayal. I think Elizabeth Edwards does not need to be involved with John's baby. She does, however, need to let her children know that after she's gone, as difficult as it will be, that they will have a sister, regardless of how she arrived here.

Blindingly selfish -- John Edwards and Rielle Hunter. Despicable really.

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About Hanah Cho
Hanah Cho joined The Baltimore Sun in 2003, just a few years out of college. While covering everything from education to workplace issues to financial services, she also got married and became a first-time mom in December 2009. Now, she’s trying to juggle work and life demands without losing her sanity.

She lives in Columbia with her husband and infant son.

Kate Shatzkin authored Charm City Moms until June 18, 2010.
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