Kids of working moms don't eat right?
Ruh-roh -- the Mommy Wars are about to heat up. This story on our parenting page, from Chicago Tribune columnist Julie Deardorff, reports on a British study that compared a set of children of working women with a set of children whose moms stayed home. The kids of stay-at-home moms ate more fruits and vegetables, watched less TV, and walked more.
Ouch. Could someone please shoot me now?
I try. I do. And I'm told by our doctor that my kids are healthy. Still, this is great food for the mom-guilt monster.
As Deardorff points out, the study didn't look at the impact of working fathers. Even in 2009, we still assume that if a kid isn't practicing healthy habits, it's the mother's fault.









Comments
I'm so tired of these studies. Yes, I'm sure some kids of SAHM's are better for it. There are also some kids of working moms who are better for it. And what if the Dad or another close family member is the daytime caregiver- does that come into play? Probably not. There are thousands of variables that go into shaping a child, none of which can be absolutely covered in any major study.
Posted by: sdr | September 30, 2009 12:24 PM
I'm actually not surprised by this finding but I see this more of a comment on the day care centers in our country.
The food offerings at many centers are especially healthy and some have television as part of the curriculum.
On diet, my experience at with my son's daycare and looking at others is that many serve convenience foods (chicken nuggests, spaghetti, etc) and require that you use their meal plan. Lucky for me, our center allows me to pack his lunch and I choose healthy items.
For television, I don't like our center's policy and have specified that my son is not allowed in the room when they have TV time, whether it's educational or not. But that's my choice and they don't actually advertise that as a choice. I had to specifically ask.
So easy changes within the daycare setting could fix such issues.
Sorry for the novel.
Posted by: richelle | September 30, 2009 4:25 PM
For me the best solution was working part-time. I was a better mother if I got away from the kids for part of the day, and they had excellent childcare, so their lives were enriched. We enjoyed our time together more than if we had been together every moment.
I think our standards are higher than they were years ago. Fans of "Mad Men" (set in the 60s) know that Betty Draper is constantly telling her children to "go watch TV."
Posted by: Dahlink | September 30, 2009 5:59 PM