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February 16, 2009

Choosing a kindergarten

Kayris asked how to go about researching kindergartens for her child. I consulted Richard E. Bavaria, senior vice president for education outreach for Bal timore-based Sylvan Learning and author of DrRickblog.com, a blog for educators and parents. He offers an equation: “A squared + C Squared = Good Choice. The As are ‘Atmosphere’ and ‘Adults.’ The Cs are ‘Curriculum’ and ‘Children.’

--Atmosphere: Visit the school, Bavaria writes. “Are you greeted warmly? Do the children appear to be enjoying themselves and learning? Are the children playing and learning together? Is there children’s art work on the walls? If the weather’s nice, are there kids out on the playground? Does the playground appear safe? Trust your Mommy and Daddy instincts – does the place “feel” right? Relax. If your child senses you’re stressed, she will be, too.”

--Adults. Does there seem to be a good teacher/ student ratio? Recommendations vary, Bavaria says, but a good rule of thumb is that there should be a teacher or a trained assistant for every three or four children. “Do these adults seem to be genuinely devoted to the children? Do they seem to like being there? Do they take an interest in each child? Do they read books to the children regularly, enthusiastically, and frequently? What do other parents say about the school? Does the school communicate regularly and concisely with parents?”

--Curriculum. Bavaria recommends looking for a good balance of academic and social skills. “Yes, you want kindergarten to be nurturing the “whole child,” but you also demand the beginnings of the 3 Rs,” he writes. “These earliest school days are when healthy attitudes and values about learning are set. Do there seem to be accommodations made for lots of different learning styles and levels of readiness? Are the kids learning in large groups, small groups, and individually? Is there a lot of reading going on?”

--Children. “Are the children the most important people in the room? Do the children seem to be happy, eager to learn, excited to be there? Do the activities inspire, challenge, and stretch their creativity, imaginations, and natural curiosity? When your child comes home, does he want to tell you excitedly what he’s done today and tell you he can’t wait to go back? That’s the ultimate recommendation.”

Posted by Kate Shatzkin at 5:57 AM | | Comments (4)
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Is there a kindergarten anywhere in the U.S.A. that provides a teacher/student ratio of 1:3 or 1:4?

I was wondering that myself. Mine doesn't!

I like the advice about trusting your gut instincts. One of the first places I visited with my older son came highly recommended by a coworker, but when we visited one little boy was sobbing without let up, and no one in the room did anything to comfort him.

At another school my bright child tried to engage the director with his own questions, but she spoke over his head to me. Later on, when there were charges of child abuse at that preschool (now closed), I was not surprised that the director was quoted as saying "You can't believe what a child says."

How true. We passed on one day care after we asked the director whether she had kids. She rolled her eyes and said, "I don't need any more kids." Thanks, but no thanks!

I chose based on which public school in my district was closest to my home with full-day kindergarten.

I don't really understand the question about kindergarten. If the child is in daycare already, I can see keeping the child there for kindergarten. And if the child isn't in daycare, or if you want to smooth the child's transition to 1st grade, and can see sending the child to kindergarten where the child will attend elementary school, but then the selection for kindergarten is part of the larger elementary school selection process. Do any people at all choose to send their children to kindergarten somewhere for one year, then move the children for 1st grade? If so, why on earth do they do that?

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About Hanah Cho
Hanah Cho joined The Baltimore Sun in 2003, just a few years out of college. While covering everything from education to workplace issues to financial services, she also got married and became a first-time mom in December 2009. Now, she’s trying to juggle work and life demands without losing her sanity.

She lives in Columbia with her husband and infant son.

Kate Shatzkin authored Charm City Moms until June 18, 2010.
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