As a mom of two boys, I sometimes struggle to understand how much machismo and rough-housing is a normal part of growing up and how much is too much. One minute they’ll be quietly watching TV or playing a game with their buddies, and the next they’re on top of each other imitating their favorite wrestling stars. I end up being the referee, stopping it before they break a lamp or someone gets hurt.

Too often, I’ve seen that good-natured teasing turns hurtful. That’s why I was interested to read a guide on education.com that helps parents recognize and deal with bullying.

New research shows that more than half of kids are directly involved in bullying—either as perpetrator, victim or both. Bullying isn’t just one kid beating another up on the playground. It extends to harassment on the computer, relentless teasing and exclusion. Not surprisingly, bullying usually takes place outside of the classroom – before and after school, during recess and on weekends. And sometimes the bullying at school is the result of bullying at home, researchers say (see here).  

While we parents can’t be there every second, there are things we can do to help. Here are some suggestions:

• Talk with and listen to your kids - every day.

• Spend time helping (and observing) at school and recess.

• Be a good example of kindness and leadership.

• Learn the signs of bullying.

• Establish household rules about bullying.

• Spread the word that bullying should not be a normal part of childhood.

 Read more here.

Do you have any other suggestions on how parents can prevent bullying, especially within the family?