When I was planning our trip to Italy my husband let me handle the whole thing, his only must was that we not go to Venice. I thought he was crazy but have heard many stories like your and I am so glad we did not go. There are so many great little cities and towns to check out, I don't feel like I missed out on anything.

I'm so sorry you didn't fall in love with the Venice like I did. I had the pleasure of living in Venice about 10 years ago as a student. Four years ago, my husband proposed to me on the Point. Maybe you'll change your mind if you try my favorite restaurant, Taverno San Trovaso. From the Accademia Bridge (Dorsoduro side), head toward your right and walk along the Calle Corfu. Turn left at the canal. The restaurant is on the Fondamenta Priuli. I'd call for reservations. Try the zuppa di verdura. Yum!! There's also a great little pizza take-away on the calle just before Campo San Barnaba (on the way to Campa Santa Margharita - Dorsoduro). With siesta still in place in Venice, they have strange hours, but stop by for a big slice (they have french fry pizza!!)

While I undertand someone's individual opinion, you would be selling yourself way short if a trip to Italy (at least your first) didn't include Venice. I stayed there one night during my first trip there, and 3 nights the during my second visit to Italy. I agree that it can get somewhat touristy, but the quaintness of the whole experience is a must. No cars, motorcycles, scooters, or bikes. That aspect places it above most other Italian destinations. Of course I recommend seeing the rest of the Country, but my wife and I have decided to return to Venice for an entire week vacation soon.

Emily is spot-on about Trattoria San Trovaso--we liked it so much we ate there twice in less than a week. And if I had to pick, I'd say the Dorsoduro district is my favorite of Venice's sestieri.