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April 3, 2009

Quinn Bradlee and VCFS

Quinn Bradlee and VCFSQuinn Bradlee, son of Washington Post legends Ben Bradlee and Sally Quinn, has written a book about his battle with a rare disorder called velocardiofacial syndrome (VCFS). In A Different Life: Growing Up Learning Disabled and Other Adventures (Public Affairs, $24.95), he speaks about the heart condition that triggered seizures and other problems. And now that he's in his mid-20s, he questions his ability to hold a job and break away from parents who have nurtured him.

From an excerpt in Newsweek: "As far as independence from my parents goes, my dad's not really the issue. ... [My mom is] like a bulldog, or a lioness. You don't want to mess with her. She has controlled a lot of my life. Sometimes I'm angry about that, because I feel I'm in the passenger seat of the car and I have to ride wherever the driver wants me to go. ...

"But there is a flip side to everything. ... I couldn't have lived without my mom. She's saved my ass a million times. She has been like an archangel to me. She had the wings that I didn't. And she's basically carried me everywhere I've been."

Posted by Dave Rosenthal at 11:27 AM | | Comments (5)
        

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Thanx for helping to spread the word about Quinn and VCFS. We have a young daughter who was born with the syndrome. Quinn has been and will continue to be an inspiration for her and for her parents.

Great info! My you youngest daughter & husband have the deletion. I love that the word is getting out there, maybe 1 day the whole world will know what 22q11.2 DS/VCFS is.

Thank you for this book. My daughter was born with VCFS 6 yrs. ago & I have struggled to learn about this syndrome to help her. Her school doesn't really know anything they keep putting me off. Her ped.(doctor) doesn't tell me what to prepare for. I keep reading things to try & learn about her. I have tried to apply for assistance to help her with disabilites but I get no where its not like a child that has down syndrome or ceribal palsey?? People know what that is ---ANYHOW THANK YOU SO MUCH I CAN SEE THINGS & UNDERSTAND THINGS I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT!!

I would like people to be aware that VCFS is not rare, but may occur in as many as one in every 2,000 births. In addition, approximately thirty percent of VCFS patients suffer from mental illness. My sister, for example, endured a serious psychosis from age 20 until her death early this year due to complications of VCFS. Every day for more than two decades she had to battle the voices in her mind, trying to ingore the insecurities, fears and terrible images they presented to her. Once her psychosis began, a normal life was no longer an option for her or the immediate family. She lost most of her friends, was forced to drop out of the community college that she had worked so hard to attend, and moved back home with my parents for nearly a decade, until she was eventually admitted to a mental health group home and then to a state mental hospital.

For families such as mine, who have searched every medical angle for suitable treatments for the psychosis without finding one (my father, a biochemist, has even dedicated part of his research to this cause), getting the overall message that VCFS is an illness with which patients can live a normal life is extremely discouraging. I would like people to be aware that VCFS is often not an illness with a happy ending. I hope that increased public awareness of VCFS will be coupled with an increase in genetic counseling of prospective parents, who either have the disorder themselves or are expecting a child with the disorder. This is not an illness to be taken lightly.

Dear Quinn, I saw you on CSPAN the other night. As a 75 year-old former Marine and Ph.D.,I was impressed how,despite the many difficulties, you have reached this point in life with courage and on an even keel. The challenge going forward is to be your own man despite,yet with the love&support of ,your accomplished parents.I'm sure you will succeed. C G Conway

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While she always preferred The Hardy Boys to Nancy Drew, Nancy Knight grew up reading nearly everything she could get her hands on, including a probably unhealthy amount of R.L. Stine and Christopher Pike, with the obligatory Jane Austen thrown in. She'll still read just about anything you put in front of her, especially the funny or weird. She lives in the city with her books, cat and drum set.

Dave Rosenthal came to The Baltimore Sun as a business reporter in 1987 and now is an assistant managing editor and Sunday editor. He reads a wide range of books (but never as many as he'd like), usually alternating between non-fiction and fiction. Some all-time favorites: A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole; Wind, Sand and Stars by Antoine de Saint-Exupery; and anything by Calvin Trillin or John McPhee. He belongs to a book club with a Jewish theme.
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